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		<title>Standing Out From The Crowd</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 23:55:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dr.richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting yourself noticed on the net can feel like trying to get yourself seen at a football match. Imagine you are standing in the crowd and you want everyone to look at you (all 50,000 of them). No chance. It&#8217;s the same problem as the internet. How would you get yourself noticed in the football [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting yourself noticed on the net can feel like trying to get yourself seen at a football match.</p>
<p>Imagine you are standing in the crowd and you want everyone to look at you (all 50,000 of them).</p>
<p>No chance. It&#8217;s the same problem as the internet.</p>
<p>How would you get yourself noticed in the football crowd?</p>
<p>One answer is that you could be one of the famous guys on the pitch wearing a #1 jersey. People have already heard of you and they already have their attention focused on the place where you are standing.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s assume though that you are not already a famous person on the internet.</p>
<p>So how would you do it?</p>
<p>Try this: get a small group of friends who are with you at the match.</p>
<p>Get them to stand up and raise their arms with you. Then sit down.</p>
<p>Do this again. Do it a few times.</p>
<p>Pretty soon you&#8217;ll find that 10 people sitting around your friends are copying the message too.</p>
<p>Soon after that 50 people are doing it. Then 100, then 200, then 500, 2000, 50000.</p>
<p>You might not have the whole stadium staring at you, but you&#8217;ve got them to spread the message that you and your friends started.</p>
<p>How did it work?</p>
<p>You created a message and then amplified this by getting your friends to copy it. You repeated it until other people near your friends noticed it and recognized it as a familiar message (a mexican wave) and started copying it, knowing that other people would do the same.</p>
<p>The key here is that the message is recognized, repeated, familiar and easy to transmit. That&#8217;s all it takes.</p>
<p>People notice people noticing stuff (read that again if you want).</p>
<p>OK &#8211; how do you apply this to your website promotion?</p>
<p>Same technique. Find a message about your site. It could be a story, or a tagline, or a viral video. Make it simple and easy to understand and base it on familiar things.</p>
<p>Find some friends who will copy your message, and make sure they do this a few times just to get it noticed.</p>
<p>They could talk about your story on some blogs, pass on your tagline in some emails or digg the viral video.</p>
<p>If the message is simple enough and interesting enough to pass on it will build and amplify over time as more people pick it up.</p>
<p>So there&#8217;s your website promotion. Easy (!) Clearly the key here is to get the right kind of message. Keep it simple, make it clever and give it a try&#8230;</p>



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		<title>Buy an iPhone for Your Friends</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dr.richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is not an appeal for charity. I have an interesting conversation running in my head right now. Two nights ago I stood in the local Apple store playing with a shiny new iPod Touch. I want one, but it&#8217;s $300&#8230; Now I&#8217;m not generally one for impulsive purchases and I&#8217;m pretty analytical. The sound [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is not an appeal for charity.</p>
<p>I have an interesting conversation running in my head right now. Two nights ago I stood in the local Apple store playing with a shiny new <a title="Wordpress on iPod Touch" href="http://ipodtouchtricks.net/ipod-touch/wordpress-for-ipod-touch-iwphone/">iPod Touch</a>.</p>
<p><em>I want one, but it&#8217;s $300&#8230;</em></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m not generally one for impulsive purchases and I&#8217;m pretty analytical. The sound and video quality is great and the touch screen interface is amazing. But is Google Maps really useful if you can only use it where there&#8217;s a wireless connection? Would I really want to download YouTube videos and watch them on the screen?</p>
<p>In the end I walked out of the store empty handed. All the marketing in the store hadn&#8217;t convinced me.</p>
<p>Yesterday my colleague came in to the room and started showing off his new iPod Touch. He said how amazing it was and everybody crowded round to take a look and play with it.</p>
<p><em>Now I really want one, it&#8217;s $300&#8230;</em></p>
<p>What&#8217;s going on here? I now want the thing even more because a friend has one, other people are impressed by it and I could show it off to my family and friends. That&#8217;s not very analytical is it? But it applies to so many things that people buy.</p>
<p>If people feel that buying an item will satisfy a desire and improve their status with friends then they are much more likely to make the purchase. In some ways they are buying it for their friends.</p>
<p>You can apply this to your website too. What does it offer that visitors will desire? What will make them feel good? Maybe valuable tips &amp; ideas, or some secrets, or a way to save money. What does your website offer that they can  tell their friends and family about?</p>
<p>This is a hard thing to do and not many people get it right. If you can do it then you will have a better website.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m going back to get one tonight, I&#8217;ll find the $300&#8230;<br />
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I&#8217;ll let you know what happens</p>
<p>PS. So why did I use iPhone in the title when I&#8217;m discussing an iPod?</p>



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